004 Getting Your Needs Met with A Smile

In this episode, Cheryl will discuss:   Root cause #2 of relationship failure: not getting your needs met. How giving out of obligation leads to relationship failure   A win-win strategy for asking your partner for your needs to be met. Key Takeaways:   Asking your partner to sacrifice their selfish needs for your selfish…

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003 Feeling Loved Not Just Being Loved

In this episode, Cheryl will discuss:   Root cause #1 of relationship failure:  love dying after the honeymoon stage.  Why eliminating this loss is so important. How making your partner feel fully loved by speaking their love language can keep petty annoyances from eroding your love bond. Key Takeaways:   Everyone needs to feel loved, not just…

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002 Three Best Practices for Success

In this episode, Cheryl will discuss:   How just 3 daily practices that nourish the soil that relationship woes grow in can end relationship failure once and for all. How focusing on just 3 causes can simplify your path to success and give you the skill to take charge and build a relationship of your…

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001 Welcome to X’s & O’s not Exes & Woes

Your host, Cheryl Herbst is an experienced Relationship Strategist who specializes in keeping your X’s & O’s from becoming Exes & Woes with only three daily practices. The podcast will help listeners solve relationship failures once and for all, and therefore keep that new relationship sizzle long after the honeymoon stage!  Cheryl holds certifications in…

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