Archive for March 2019
Relationships Aren’t So Mysterious After All
Feeling completely loved, ending unresolved fighting and getting your needs met with an unreserved yes all have their roots in one word: communication. Yes, it is no more complicated than discovering how to speak differently! You see, what you may not be realizing until now is what you are communicating that is getting you the feedback that you…
Read MoreTraumas & Dramas
Have you ever looked at your partner in disbelief that he or she could have said what they just did? Then did you end up in this escalating battle, each trying to pull the other to your own mindset? The result of this confusion is frustration coursing through your veins that your partner could be…
Read MoreInspire Desire
The struggle it takes to try and get your needs met is another big disappointments in relationships. You enter your relationship with such high hopes that this lover is “going to fulfill me, save me, provide for my happiness.” Your eyes sparkle with the thought of how this new person is “going to do this…
Read MoreFeeling Loved
Isn’t the most obvious issue that plagues any relationship, the loss of the honeymoon stage? You were once madly in love – and now your sizzle has turned into apathy. Can’t a dozen therapeutic perspectives be found online to make this loss digestible? But what if we think outside the box therapy has given us? What…
Read MorePull The Weeds Or Fix The Soil?
How many times have you limited yourself because you ASSUMED something to be true? Despite what I was being taught to assume, one day I thought, “What if they’re wrong? What if there WAS a way to be safe AND vulnerable!” So I began searching through my relationship problems and asking myself WHY each was…
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