Posts by Cheryl Herbst
Inspire Desire
The struggle it takes to try and get your needs met is another big disappointments in relationships. You enter your relationship with such high hopes that this lover is “going to fulfill me, save me, provide for my happiness.” Your eyes sparkle with the thought of how this new person is “going to do this…
Read MoreFeeling Loved
Isn’t the most obvious issue that plagues any relationship, the loss of the honeymoon stage? You were once madly in love – and now your sizzle has turned into apathy. Can’t a dozen therapeutic perspectives be found online to make this loss digestible? But what if we think outside the box therapy has given us? What…
Read MorePull The Weeds Or Fix The Soil?
How many times have you limited yourself because you ASSUMED something to be true? Despite what I was being taught to assume, one day I thought, “What if they’re wrong? What if there WAS a way to be safe AND vulnerable!” So I began searching through my relationship problems and asking myself WHY each was…
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