Posts Tagged ‘love relationship’
004 Getting Your Needs Met with A Smile
In this episode, Cheryl will discuss: Root cause #2 of relationship failure: not getting your needs met. How giving out of obligation leads to relationship failure A win-win strategy for asking your partner for your needs to be met. Key Takeaways: Asking your partner to sacrifice their selfish needs for your selfish…
Read More003 Feeling Loved Not Just Being Loved
In this episode, Cheryl will discuss: Root cause #1 of relationship failure: love dying after the honeymoon stage. Why eliminating this loss is so important. How making your partner feel fully loved by speaking their love language can keep petty annoyances from eroding your love bond. Key Takeaways: Everyone needs to feel loved, not just…
Read More002 Three Best Practices for Success
In this episode, Cheryl will discuss: How just 3 daily practices that nourish the soil that relationship woes grow in can end relationship failure once and for all. How focusing on just 3 causes can simplify your path to success and give you the skill to take charge and build a relationship of your…
Read More001 Welcome to X’s & O’s not Exes & Woes
Your host, Cheryl Herbst is an experienced Relationship Strategist who specializes in keeping your X’s & O’s from becoming Exes & Woes with only three daily practices. The podcast will help listeners solve relationship failures once and for all, and therefore keep that new relationship sizzle long after the honeymoon stage! Cheryl holds certifications in…
Read MoreRelationships Aren’t So Mysterious After All
Feeling completely loved, ending unresolved fighting and getting your needs met with an unreserved yes all have their roots in one word: communication. Yes, it is no more complicated than discovering how to speak differently! You see, what you may not be realizing until now is what you are communicating that is getting you the feedback that you…
Read MoreTraumas & Dramas
Have you ever looked at your partner in disbelief that he or she could have said what they just did? Then did you end up in this escalating battle, each trying to pull the other to your own mindset? The result of this confusion is frustration coursing through your veins that your partner could be…
Read MoreInspire Desire
The struggle it takes to try and get your needs met is another big disappointments in relationships. You enter your relationship with such high hopes that this lover is “going to fulfill me, save me, provide for my happiness.” Your eyes sparkle with the thought of how this new person is “going to do this…
Read MoreFeeling Loved
Isn’t the most obvious issue that plagues any relationship, the loss of the honeymoon stage? You were once madly in love – and now your sizzle has turned into apathy. Can’t a dozen therapeutic perspectives be found online to make this loss digestible? But what if we think outside the box therapy has given us? What…
Read MorePull The Weeds Or Fix The Soil?
How many times have you limited yourself because you ASSUMED something to be true? Despite what I was being taught to assume, one day I thought, “What if they’re wrong? What if there WAS a way to be safe AND vulnerable!” So I began searching through my relationship problems and asking myself WHY each was…
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